Lawrence Journal-World

 

Saving Children

Charlotte Ostermann

 

Two more children have been murdered by their mother.  Renee Aulton may have her reasons, but reasonable people just can’t understand or accept this tragedy easily.  Is everyone shocked, or are we becoming hardened and impervious to the horror of a mother killing her own precious children?  I pray that we, the reasonable ones, don’t ever become so accustomed to this type of crime that we take it in stride.  The love of a mother for her children is so utterly foundational to the strength of a family and thus, to the strength of this country, that we must not turn crime-weary and apathetic in the face of these murders.

What can we do? Are we helpless to help?  Every single thing we do to affirm the innate sanctity of human life is a support of the mother against her own selfishness, temporary insanity, desperation, or hardness of heart.  Every lifting-up of the value of a child, the value of mothering that child, the value of persevering through hardship for a child’s sake is a lifting-up of the heart of a mother toward the sacrificial love she is capable of experiencing. 

A society that can turn around the horrendous addiction to cigarettes by making it socially preferable, even honorable, not to smoke, can certainly have an impact on infanticide!  Let’s see the entertainment industry set up as role models women whose love for their children helps them grow through adversity, whose belief in the sacredness of life prevents them from killing a burdensome, or frustrating child, and who benefit as human beings by holding to a higher principle than short-term self-seeking.

The Bible tells older women to “teach the young women to …love their children” (Titus 2:4), implying that love is an active choice, or skill that can be learned and modeled.  We have an obligation to model a positive, loving, protective attitude toward children in this society, and to caution attitude-shapers against any position that would seem to mitigate the value of the life of a child.

Please stay sensitive and continue to be horrified whenever a woman kills her child.  Then do something to honor human life, and protect the living children in our midst.